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writes:So its been a month that my exboyfriend broke up with me and im still having the hardest time to get over him. We dated for a 1year nd 2months. So for me its so hard to let go of wat we went through. I already tried talkn to him. I sed i was sorry nd if he could give me a second chance but all he sed was "no leave me alone, im done with you, i stopped carring a while ago and moved on." i dnt even know why he broke up with me. I asked him nd he sed it didnt matter anymore but it matters to me because i still love him and want him back. But its very clear that he wont ever come back. I juss miss him so much. I kno i got to move on and blah blah.but im havin a hard time. Does anyone have any tips on how to move on nd stop stressing over dis.? Yur help is aprecciated. Thnx everyone.
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reader, KITcAThottie  +, writes (5 April 2011):
I have a similar problem and I still have feelings for my ex but we are good friends now and we both moved on and I know is hard but you have to try do it for yourself not for him
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
 I'm assuming you did something to bring on the breakup since you were asking him for a second chance?
In that case, if he no longer wants to be with you there's nothing you can do and you have to move on. I tell everyone this, but the best thing you can do is to erase all your pictures of him from your computer(if you have trouble doing this put them on a cd before you delete) Any gifts he's given you, notes, everything...if you can't throw it away, stick it all in a box and stuff it in the very back corner of your closet where you will never see it. Delete his number from your phone, and if you have a facebook...get him off there.
Then, get out of the house. Don't spend time laying around the house crying about it, you've had your mourning time, you've cried about it, now is your time to move on. Hang out with your friends as much as possible, go to the movies, spend some time with your family, go on a road trip, visit the zoo, it will take a lot of time, but eventually you will find that you are thinking about this guy less and less. And you'll even start to notice that other men are catching your eye. Start dating. Sooner or later you are going to find someone who you will care about and who wants to be in a relationship with you.
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