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He cheated on me before we broke up, should I treat him on his birthday??

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Question - (4 April 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *pendy writes:

What should I do? is my friend right about this?

My ex boyfriend broke up a month ago, he said he didn't want a relationship

but later on told me is cos he fell out of love with me and he didn't want to break my heart that is why he couldn't break up with me.

but i found out he was cheating on me for 2months. i met up with him to return his stuff and he apologised and when we were talking about his birthday he said he wants to get manicure and pedicure, he wants to try it and i said i willl take him on his birthday as a present.

i loved him and i still do but i know we cant be together but i dint want things to be horrible between us, so i asked my friend if i should take him to the salon on his birthday, she said yes after everything hes done to me, i should pay him back with kindness cos that will hurt him more and he will know the kind of a person i am. that am not a bad person and i didn't deserve what he did to me.

but i dont know..what should i do?

my friend and I are both Christians.

thanks..xx

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A female reader, ghoku United States +, writes (5 April 2011):

dont give him anything, he doesn't deserve it. you will just waste your money and time on a loser. save your self from humiliation. have some pride. love yourself more.

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