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writes:I have been good friends with this girl for a couple months, we are practically inseparable. Lately I have been spending a lot of time at her house and meeting her family. Her mom is nothing but a sweet heart, and her dad was nothing but awesome at first to. The first night I spent the night at her house we were getting ready for a party, and her dad offered to drive and pick us up because we would be drinking. I was wearing really high pumps with leggings and a tight shirt, my boobs were out but not a big deal, I'm eighteen finishing my senior year in highschool. The whole way there and back he just kept staring at me, just insanely, and it made me feel weird, but I didn't really think to much of it considering I really did not know him yet. The morning after , I went down stairs in shorts and a tank, and again he was peering from behind his computer screen. I went back a week later, which was last night. I walked in and he said oh look your here now and you can clean the sink, and I was like yea ha OK, and he was like you know I am just kidding with you...? Random... Anyways I went upstairs to see my friend, and he gave me some stuff to give to my friend, he just kept lingering around. My friend follows to randomly say, My dad really likes you, I go how do you know? She says I don't know I have no idea why, he usually doesn't like anyone off the bat. Then we came back from another party that night, and I caught him dead staring at me ass and checking me out, I don't understand, and this has only been two weekends... What do I do, is he creeping or what, I've caught him staring and checking me out, he also felt the need to say goodnight to me with the door closed, isn't that supposed to mean PRIVACY!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): Yes, his behavior is definitely creepy and honestly has to make you feel so uncomfortable. A woman's body is meant to be admired with great passion and delicacy, not undressing and perhaps degradeable stares. Id def try to cover up more. You sound super sexy btw and even I myself would have a hard time not looking lol but not in any perverted, degrading, or immoral way. Id compliment you politely!
If he breaks the touch barrier somehow and it makes you feel uneasy, then you should address this with your friend and him. If you drink, be responsible as well doll and thats good he gives you rides, however, to play it safe, Id see if you can find an alternate driver. Last thing you want to feel before heading to a party or nite out is violated by someones nonverbal communication. Hugs :)
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reader, Yetilicious +, writes (5 April 2011):
 The dad's staring is a bit creepy, and not normal. I wouldn't say anything unless he tries to physically touch you because that might hurt your friendship. What I would do is try to cover up as much as I could when I'm around him. The other stuff just sounds to me like he's joking around with you, what any normal dad would do. If you get too uncomfortable maybe try hanging out with your friend at your place or hang out when you know her dad isn't home.
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