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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay, I was wondering if my ex still has feelings for me. We did not break up that long ago and there are subtle hints but I need other peoples opinion so I know if i'm just over obsessing or not. Firstly, his hotmail password used to be ilove and then my name, his fb password is the same way. He changed his hotmail password but not his fb. Yes he has been on facebook since the breakup and yes he does know how to change it. he told me he didnt have feelings for me anymore when he dumped me but i asked for one last kiss and after he kissed me i asked him if it grossed him out but he said it was a good kiss and had this huge grin on his face :S if he doesnt love me why would he smile about our kiss. he put himself as single on fb but he kept up pictures of us (even one of us kissing). n when he dumped me i asked him if hed miss me and he said yes. also before we broke up he was saying i love you to me for the past few days (i hadnt been saying it back because of a dumb fight) so why would he say he loves me, if he didnt. i wasnt saying it so its not like he was obligated too. n he said he was thinking about dumping me for a month so what gives? i want to know if he is just saying he doesnt love me anymore to go easy on me or what? oh yeah and he still wants to be bestfriends he got mad when i said i didnt know if i could do that because he doesnt want me gone from his life. also he told me its better for both of us if we werent dating... which could mean hes trying to let me down easy.
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reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (2 September 2010):
people very oftenly
have feelings for thier ex's
we are humans after all,
try to make him see you chatting with another guy
if he got jealous than his feelings are still alive in some way as men get jealous only for girls who they have feelings for
but remember not use jealousy too much because when a man gets extremely jealous he would simply leave and for good
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 September 2010):
I think it's most likely that he's keeping you around as a bit of a spare, in case in the future other relationships don't work out. There is no way that a man who truly loves you would just dump you like this. I think you need to pull away and stop reading too much into his actions, because you're liable to end up getting hurt later on in a much bigger way.
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