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writes:wow, it's been almost a month since my wife told me she had sex with a coworker. At first i belived her guilt. she had not got caught, and i believed all of her lies up till she told me. she seems very sorry, and whants to [be what she knows we can be], and has been going to church, and into the bible. thang is the day after she told me, in the line questions, and belive me i asked them all 3 times, i pull out of her, this guy left work 3 months ago, but told a friend, he asked her out and she says no. but a little while latter, i get it out of her she had sex with him also. 8 months 2 diff guys 3 times for first,2 times for 2, still wants to be together. she told so many lies since she came clean. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2010): She has fooled you twice now. How many more times do you wanna keep falling for this?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Do you want out? If not, forgive her with all the dignity you can muster and you have a get out of jail free card for the rest of your life.
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (17 July 2010):
 ask yourself these questions....
1. How often am I happy now.
2. How often before I found out.
3. How much can you really believe her.
4. Is it worth risking this pain again.
No one is perfect,and people are deserving of a second chance.But in my observations second chances are wasted more often than not.
If it was me and she came forward like she did with partial truths (and devastating ones to boot) when you interrogated her you should have put your ultimatum down and held to it.If so she broke trust a second time when you got the whole truth.I think there's no chance I`d still be with her but this is your decision.
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