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I'm 13 and have a son with my boyfriend, but I'm attracted to someone else!

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Question - (17 July 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 July 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I am so confused right now, I have been with my bf for 2 years we have a son together. We love each other very much and our sex life is great. But I am attracted to another man. Am I wrong for this? Its not a sexual attraction. Me and my bf are great friends, sometimes he can be a little cold. But he's been thru so much. He is sick. I don't want to hurt him or my relationship. But I can't get the other man out of my head. What is wrong with me?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010):

Thank you quiet echo you advice was very helpful. Sometimes I think, "what if I met him for a reason, or is this a temptation?". Then I think to myself, "don't be crazy, quit daydreaming". Its just so confusing, and made me question my lifestyle. But thanx for any advice.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010):

No I am not 13 I am 21. That is the title the website keyed in. Thnx for answers. Appreciate any advice. I just find this situation odd, because I have NEVER so much as looked at another man before

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A female reader, veronika Australia +, writes (17 July 2010):

veronika agony auntRegardless of your age, it isn't wrong to be attracted to somebody else while you're in a relationship. It only becomes a problem if you act on that attraction and betray trust.

There isn't anything wrong with you as such. It sounds like you have a crush. That's normal. Everybody has crushes, even people in a relationship (and those who have children).

As long as you don't get carried away and start an affair with this other guy, you shouldn't run into too many problems.

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States +, writes (17 July 2010):

Fatherly Advice agony auntThank you Quiet Echo,

My penchant for mathematics has given me pause on this question. I will also wait for that confirmation.

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