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*allenangel18
writes:Hi! I am new to this. I have been married for ten years. I have two beautiful daughters ages 6 and 7. My husband is a wonderful caring husband and a good person, I am just not in love with him. I honestly don't think I ever was. I feel nothing for him whatsoever, this has been going on for about 4 years. After about a year of living this loveless life I fell in love with someone. I don't know what to do, I have never ever cheated on a boyfriend my whole life and never cheated on my husband, until now. Now I'm married with two children and I'm having an affair!! The marriage was horrible before the affair. I feel my husband is my roommate. We don't sleep together and we havent for over 7 years. That all started because he works days and I work nights. We have our own rooms. I have lived this life my whole marriage. We get along, we don not fight, there is just no love there. I know what I'm doing is horrible, I don't know how much longer I can do this. Please someone help me. I am so torn. I don't want to tear my family apart, but I honestly don't know if I can live a loveless life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2008): Hi Fallen Angel
First of all, I can offer you my sympathy as I am in a similar boat, though in my case, I've only been with my husband for 3 years (how sad is that?!)and the man I was having an affair with got busted by his wife this past weekend. Talk about life going straight to hell in a handbasket...all I can offer you is what I plan on doing myself, which is to get some counselling. I'm not sure how much help it's going to be considering the lack of love but you have to try SOMETHING..
Good luck sweetheart!
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