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writes: I have been happily married with a family now for four years, but about six months ago I met this smashing young lady at work. Since then I have not been able to get her out of my mind. We had been very friendly and flirty and had got on very well, and I felt that we had some kind of connection. Last Thursday was her last day a work. She told me she would like to see me again although she has tells me she has a boyfriend and she gave me her moblie number and home number. Since then we have been out to lunch and had a great time. My wife has no idea about this. I think I may be falling in love with this girl. What do I do confess my feelings to this girl and take a gamble, or back off in fear of hurting everyone around me? What do I do?
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Tell your wife. Give her the courtesey of knowing and being able to make decisions as to her future or lack of it with you.
You are effectively courting this woman. It will happen that at some point you will become sexually involved. So if you love your wife, beack off now and work on your marriage. When was the last time you took your wife out to luch and *wooed* her and enjoyed yourself with her????
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2006): Be with your wife and family and GROW UP!!!!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (17 February 2006):
 If you're happily maried, why are you carring on like this? What is missing in your relationship with your wife? Do you realize how much you would hurt the woman you are "happily" married to? You've already done enough to damage your relationship if your wife were to find out. Play it off like it was just plutonic and focus on home.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2006): Well it's quite obvious. A) leave your wife, go after the girl; B) be honorable, and stay with your family, stop f**king around with the girl; or C) cheat on your wife and family, and f**k the girl.Don't ask us what to do, different people will tell you what you should do based on their principles. You should do what your heart wants to do. Either it hurts someone or not, ultimately, it's what you want to do, and how you proceed to do it.
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