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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am married from 4 months, me and my hubby tried a lot to have sex, but it never happens :( I feel my vagina is too small and his penis is too large for me. I read some articles saying that vagina feels small until the hymen breaks. But how to break it? as we have tried a lot, it never breaks. What to do, please help.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 I read somewhere that sometimes the woman is so afraid of the relationship that she actually "closes up". I need to find the reference, however.
I was going to ask if this was the first man it happened with, but, since you are asking about the hymen, I see there's no point in asking.
There could be a psychological component to this. Check that too.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 have you been to the gyn for a medical work up?
that's the FIRST thing you need to do.. get a gynecalogical exam...
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reader, mammaboo  +, writes (21 November 2011):
 I watched a programme on this once. You can actually have an operation to correct this!Aftertrying some of the suggested techniques and it still doen,t work,go and see your doctor!
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 November 2011):
 You can ask your doctor to have the hymen surgically removed, if it will not break naturally and is causing problems for your sex life. How large is he? Is he above the average in size, or on the larger side of average? If so then you could start by using toys, vibrators or fingers, and inserting them in your vagina and making you used to it. Then move to larger toys/more fingers in time to make you widen out. Make sure you are always comfortable and enjoying it, it should not feel like you are pressured or forced. You need to be able to enjoy it and relax, or else you can end up hurting yourself.
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