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writes: Hi, i am 15 and i was kissed by my teacher. He wrote a poem to me which i got confused about as a cooperation to write poem but it was a love letter. I don't know his age but he is the range of late 20's to early 30's he is a flirt he hugs some females that attend the tutorial centre he own and teaches in. I was embraced by him and kissed he asked have i been touched sexually all over my body which i answered no he ask me am i scared when he tried to pry my mouth open which i declined he told me he wouldn't hurt me. He told me he love and did i like him i answered no and he told me he would make me like him and finally love him. I was shocked when i left the place i wanted to tell my mom but i disagree. I am hoping for this month to end so i could leave the place
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2022): Tell your parents, tell the head teacher or another teacher, tell the police or a doctor or any adult in authority. This is wrong. Dont go back to his class and certainly dont be alone with him. If he tries to take you somewhere alone, shout and run away. He doesnt love you, he is using you and more worryingly he could hurt you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2022): Do you still have his poem?Even if you write a poem about love he had no right to try to force you to have an open mouth kiss with him.He is behaving badly and you are worried.I think if you told someone it would be easier for you.Because you sound confused.As if you think it's your fault.It can't be your fault because you are too young to be blamed.A student doesn't need to write a letter rejecting their teachers advances.Because you are young ( under the age of consent and under the age of adulthood) it can't be your fault.Even if you went up to him and planted a big giant smakeroo of a wet kiss on him it would still not be your fault!He would report it to his superiors but they would assume you had a school girl crush on him!But if he does the talking and tries to touch you up then that is wrong.The only possible cop-out he could have was that he asked you about your sexual experience as a safe-guarding exercise because he thought you might be being sexually abused at home!I can't imagine him asking you to write a rejection letter as a form of teaching.You can make sure you are never alone with him, but as mum is paying I am sure that mum would like to know that he has made you feel uncomfortable.And some of the stuff he said to you sounds a bit creepy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2022): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just remember that he told me think about it and write a reply to him when i declined.
i declined because i felt the poems that i write were not to perfection but when he told me i shouldn't decline him i wrote a reply and showed him before he kissed me
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2022): I will add. All this is inappropriate, and because you're taken by it; you may never tell on him. Please don't be afraid to let everyone know what he did!
TELL YOUR PARENTS! He should not be around young girls!
Please take our advice, and tell your mother!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2022): Your teacher has got no right to try to kiss you.
That is totally out of order.
He has got no right to try to get you to agree with it by telling you that you will get to loving him.
And that you would like it....
The nerve of the man!
He even asked if you'd been touched sexually.
It's none of his business and it's not on the teaching curriculum.
He is being a pervy old man trying to break down your barriers so that he can cop a feel next time.
Ughh...He is not sweetness and light...He will try to turn the blame on you if you don't report him to another adult.
Report him to anyone you can e.g. The police or your mum or your dad.
Just start by saying: " I don't like Mr.
zzzzz..because he tried to kiss me and he wanted to know if I'd had sex! Or touching! "
He will be sacked and other helpless students will be spared his creepy advances.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2022): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy mom may call him which i don't want because that would be an embarassment and waste of money she pays him
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (8 March 2022):
 Tell your mom ASAP.
This guy needs to be fired. He is a predator. Grooming little girls and forcing himself on them. Next time it might not be a kiss he tries.
This is NOT OK and NOT your fault. He is a total creep.
Tell your mom, tell the school.
And don't feel bad, you didn't do anything wrong. He did.
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reader, mystiquek +, writes (8 March 2022):
 Please tell your mom. The teacher is way out of line! Dont keep this to yourself. If he is acting this way now and you dont say something who knows what he might do to a child in the future. Dont be afraid I am sure your mom will know what do. That man should not be teaching.
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reader, kenny  +, writes (8 March 2022):
 If this post is genuine then you have to report this immediately. You need to tell your Mum, and hopefully your Mum will know the correct channels to go down.
He is in a position of trust, a position of power, and you are a child. He must be reported as soon as possible.
Don't keep this to yourself and let him get away with this. You need to tell your Mum as soon a possible.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2022): You must tell your mum and whoever is in charge at the school should know. Avoid him as much as you can in the future. And don't believe all this stuff about how he loves you, I am sure he says that to lots of girls in the hope of sex with them. Telling you what you want to hear so that you trust him and let him.
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