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writes:There's a teacher at my school who won't stop staring at me! And no, I don't have a crush on him at all! But he is just so freaky. Today he came over and stood right next to me in assembly just staring at me and then I was on my way to the maths block and I think... he was waiting until I came in because he came out as I was about to enter. Then he had a go at me for being late and wouldn't break the eye-contact. I have him for a lesson as well and its so unbelievably awkward, I dare not look at him incase he gets the wrong idea yet I always feel his eyes on me. And often he'll find excuses to tell me off :S My mates have noticed his behaviour towards me aswel, so i'm not paranoid. Is he just a pervert? I have no intention of reporting him, because i've had my fair share of trouble at school already this year. I just want to understand the reason behind it!
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reader, xXteeheeXx +, writes (14 December 2009):
I have the same issue except i already have tried telling my parents. Is he really strict? Then give him a HUGE grin and wave for a long time and KEEP EYE CONTACT WITH HIM. He might get all grossed out and never make eye contact with you again. If he still does, then just pick your nose or sniff your armpit. Good luck.
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reader, TaylorChu +, writes (13 March 2008):
 I'd call him out on it personally. "Why do you keep staring at me. It makes me uncomfortable and other people see you staring at me." I would say this but I have no idea how he would respond/react to that. I would tell a guidance counselor that a teacher is making you feel uncomfortable. Don't worry about him getting the wrong idea. If he did anything he would be held responsible not you because you are the minor and he is the adult. If it comes down to it tell your parents. There is no sense in feeling uncomfortable while you are getting your education. Even if it takes you being placed with another teacher--go for it. Who knows what is going on in his mind and the last thing you need is a teacher chewing you out for avoiding him because he gives you the creeps. I hope things work out for you.
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (12 March 2008):
 If you really feel he is a pervert, just try not to be alone in a room with him, k?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): i dont think so, how old is he roughly cos older guys tend to do that kinda thing and theyre also really flirty (i noticed this with a teacher too)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2008): don't you think you're over reacting just a little, maybe he thinks you are a trouble maker and he is just keeping an eye on you...or maybe you're right, how do u know? If you feel it has been going on for a long time and you're uncomftable maybe you should report it.
hopw this is help 2 u xxx
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