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writes:Ok, well, my so called "friend" stabbed me in the back a few nights ago.It all started a 2 months ago when I met this really cute boy. He works at my favorite store and he and I didn't talk much, but we like the same music... And I'm not sure about this but I think that he was flirting with me when he kept hinting that he was just about to go on break. Well, my first wrong move was telling this girl I thought was my "friend" about this boy. She gave me the confidence to go talk to him, so when we went to the store she spent the WHOLE time talking to him. Then she said, "Yeah, he IS kinda cute."Then it turned out that she knew him from school and they talk sometimes. And she apparently brought up that I thought he was cute and he, I guess, took an interest. But I was so excited for the next time I'd get to see him and my "friend" said that she wanted to introduce us. I was even more excited.So, I hadn't seen him in a month, and I was getting anxious, to the point where I'd bug my "friend" about if she had talked to him. She told me that she wanted to hook us up so that she could make a girl she hates jealous ('cause she likes him). I thought that was pretty low, but regardless I was happy.Recently she's been making me avoid him though, not letting me go to the store where he works, putting off us meeting, and not talking about him, and whenever I ask, she doesn't say anything. So when I saw that they friended each other on Facebook I saw them FLIRTING! she was flirting with him! It broke my heart that she'd stab me in the back like that!What should I do?I don't even know if she even mentioned me to him considering the circumstances!Like, I just friended him on Facebook, is that a good start, or what?Like, I dunno if he's even worth it anymore.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (17 September 2011):
 Well, be glad you didn't waste more time on the dude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for posting.
UPDATE!
well, he's a jerk.
I sent him a message saying, "Hey, I know you you're that guy who works at that store (except I actually put the name of the store, haha). Right?"
He just replied with a simple, "Yep."
So I said, "You know my friend. I just noticed you on Facebook, she mentioned you a few times and I thought 'new friends!'."
No reply.
Wow, if he's gonna be the type of jerk to not even acknowledge me then whatever. Thanks for your posts, though.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (13 September 2011):
Personally I don't believe in calling "dips" on a guy. It is kinda up to him to return the feelings.
But I think your friend has no or little respect for you. She should have been honest and upfront with you.
As for the boy, well honestly, if he is flirting with HER he isn't that interested in you.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 September 2011):
I appreciate the fact that you feel this way. Your friend has, perhaps, acted with little regard for how you feel.
But realistically, you've done next to nothing with regard to this guy. You met him two months ago, and there really seemed to be something there. But you've done nothing with it.
If you want this guy, stop waiting around. Go speak to him, use facebook to message him or something. You seem to be waiting around an awful lot, rather than just getting on with it and talking to him yourself.
If you want him, go get him.
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