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writes:It has been a while since I've met anyone who I've been attracted to and today I came into contact with the most gorgeous man. I went to the bank to open up a new checking account and he was the banker who helped me. I explained to him that I needed to open a new account because my art is selling (18 paintings this month!) and need it separate for business reasons. He was very intrigued and asked me many questions about my art. I followed by handing him the fliers for my show and then he got back to what I had came there to do. Throughout the entire process we were flirting, telling each other about ourselves and so on. My account had then been set up and I needed to deposit my money. He gave me my options of either waiting in line and doing it through the teller or that we could go outside and do it. So he escorted me outside and helped me with my deposits.. (In the past other bankers would wait inside while I would make the deposit.) When we got back inside we reviewed all the information and before leaving he asked me if he could keep the fliers. I proceeded to give him my business card, which has my phone number on it and he gave me his (probably more as a formality since he was at work). The only downside was that when we shook hands goodbye he had a weak handshake... hmm.Regardless, I have not been able to get him out of my head since and was wondering your thoughts on the likelihood of him contacting me? I really hope he does.. Initially I was thinking if he hadn't contacted me within the next few days I'd email him thanking him for his excellent service and inviting him to my gallery event this weekend (he has the flier for it) if he had the time... But of course after looking at his card there is only a phone number and voicemail number. lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice! I'm not going to do anything until after the event... hope he comes but if not cest la vie. Will definitely keep you posted :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): I don't think you need to invite him ... you already have! You told him about it, gave him a flyer and he asked if he could hold onto it. He has your number and a surefire way to see you if he wants to ... the ball's now in his court! If you have an email address for him, you could always pop him a light, breezy email saying you enjoyed meeting him and would love to see him at the exhibit (and / or ask if he's likely to come as you need to notify caterers for numbers (or something like that)) but, personally, I think you should just leave it as it is now and just be sure to look amazing on the night!
I think you'll more than likely find that he'll be there! Enjoy your night!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): Invite him......just ring and ask if he would be popping in to see your exhibition - you can always pass it off as a marketing thing if he doesn't show interest.
Nothing ventured n all that...
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