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My sisters always try to be in the spotlight and steal my friends away

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Question - (14 January 2013) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I am 19 and I have 2 younger sisters who are 17 and 16.

My sisters and I are VERY different, they are the 'school queen' kind of girls who bully other people for fun, they are beautiful and popular and have bunch of (fake) friends. I am a very nerdy girl who takes my studies very seriously and prefers staying home playing video games instead of clubbing. I'm ok with that, I love the way I am.

The problem is every time I bring a friend home, my sisters do EVERYTHING to be on the spotlight, stealing my friends away. I don't think thats fair because I never do that to their friends. I just want to have fun with my friends but my sisters do not allow that, I don't know what to do, I'm tired of feeling left out. I shouldnt be feeling left out with my friends.

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A female reader, xxxnattybumxxx United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2013):

How do you friends react to your sisters trying to steer their attention away from you?

If your friends are real friends they would realise they were there to spend time with you and be polite with your siblings but spend the quality time with you and not them.

Don't worry tho - they will grow out of it eventually.

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A female reader, mrswaldhauser United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2013):

mrswaldhauser agony auntIf these "friends" you are talking about are real friends at all then they will be there for you when you need them. If they are more interested in hanging out with your sisters then leave them to it and get on with your life. To be honest this all sounds very childish for someone your age and your sisters age. I think you all need to grow up a lot as this is an issue I would expect a 12 year old girl to post.

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