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writes: I have been having problems with almost all the girls i have met, the relationships just won't last, plz is there something i have to do to keep girls more closer to me?, we start having problems in a couple of weeks and thats how it ends. plz i need advice on how to love somebody. Reply to this Question
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (5 May 2007):
 You dont need advice on how to love someone, you need advice on how to love yourself enough to deal with rejection. We all get rejection sometimes and frankly in your early 20's lots of people have flings until they find someone they really like later on in life. It is about shopping for potential mates and dating can be all rather confusing and mixed up sometimes.
It took me until 32 to get these things figured out in my own head! Try to relax and let the ladies love you...
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (5 May 2007):
 You need to first deal with yourself as a person...
How you feel about yourself depends a lot on how you relate to others.
Learn to love yourself first, as a person.
Self-esteem is an important factor when dealing with partners.
Are you putting yourself down, are you being like a little puppy dog, chasing after them? Are you seeming to be desperate? What signals are you sending out?
I think that once you have figured out your own issues first & are true to yourself, then when u meet the right girl, you will know how to love her in your own unique way.
You need to relax more about this & just concerntrate on being yourself.Hope you meet someone deserving of you!
Good Luck & take care!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007): In my opinion, don't try to hard when around girls... Though this is something i personally need to work on ;-)
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