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I want to find a man for my mom!

Q.   Im about to be a senior in highschool. My mother who is 42 just ended her 20 year marriage with my dad. Im worried for her. My dream was to always go to college in newyork and study abroad i have eerything figured out. i have the grades that ive ...

A.   28 July 2010: No not at all thats not what i meant! I NEEED my mom to find a husband so i can go away to college and feel guilt free about leaving here alone!!! I already have a scholarship in the bag.... (read in full...)

He's sending explicit photos to me and wants the same back!

Q.   This guy im talking keeps sending me non stop nude photos of him... they are veery explicit and wants the same from me. He sometimes begs for photos. I never have sent a picture but shouldi be worried? I have a feeling this guy is jut using me for ...

A.   11 May 2010: It's not someon eive met over the internet. Ive known him for three years, We dated for a while and then stopped talking. We have now recently began talking but I just wasnt sure of his intentions and something about him now seems different. Im most ... (read in full...)

My question is: why is it so hard for us to talk about making it official?!

Q.   Okay so let me tell you a little bit about my situation..so thrs this guys that ive known for a while but we've decided to be FWB...so far its been great no strings attatched rite?!...well im starting to catch feelings for him..and i know he is too ...

A.   18 December 2009: I think you definetely need to stay on birth control. Guys who are not willing to commit, usually want to have their cake and eat it to. They want to be free without any comitments. If i were you I would honestly stop doing what your doing with him ... (read in full...)

If you're not dating a guy, how far is too far?

Q.   If you and a guy start talking and yournot going out yet, how far is tooo far? Are you aloud to make out with him or go farther? Or should you wait until your going out. Should you hold of to give a blowjob or have sex? HELP!...

A.   7 December 2009: Well my friend talked to him about if he liked me or not and he said he really did but he doesnt want a relationship. So does that mean he just wants a hookup or is he being for real with me? and if he is being real I still shouldnt go farther than ... (read in full...)

Can a guy hook up with a girl multile times and have no feelings for her?

Q.   Can a guy really hook up with a girl multipile times and have no feelings for her what so ever? like is this really true? Ive heard guys can not even care what she looks like and they have no feelings for them?...

A.   15 April 2009: Damn. That's horrible... Do they atleast think she's goodlooking or can a guy have sex with a girl and not even care how she looks? I mean I hear that men r pigs all the time but idk they just don't seem like that cold to me.... (read in full...)

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

Q.   So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

A.   10 April 2009: Yeah Im like 16 lol and so is he so i know its not going to clubs lol. But like idk what exactly to say to him tonite? Like i brought it up before and he seemed to get mad that i thought he was using me. ... (read in full...)

I'm getting the point where I just feel used for sex.

Q.   So ive been dating this guy for 8 months on and on. But not going out. He says he wants to be single but we cant see other people. Of course it sketchy to me. But we've been hooking up all the time. And im getting the point where i just feel use...

A.   10 April 2009: So like what should I say to him when he tries something tonight?... (read in full...)

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