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writes:My bf is acting very strange lately(the past month). He shows far more interest in his job than anything else. I have evening classes 2 days a week, and he manages to get home early on those days, while the rest of the days that i dont have the evening classes he comes later home from work, in which resulys us having a late dinner around 9pm as to before around 5pm. Seems like he is distancing himself from me. Am i too paranoid about this? Ive tried to talked to him about this but it is still the same. what can i do'? is he sending me some msg that i dont get? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Do you work during the week? He might just want a little alone time when you're in class, if that is the only time he gets to be alone. Im a stay at home mom & I feel bad that my fiancee doesn't get his alone time cuz I'm always here. Everybody needs alone time. I would do what the above poster says. Wait a couple weeks & then confront him with your concerns.
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reader, pavel38  +, writes (13 September 2007):
What did he say when you tried to talk to him about your concerns ?. I can understand your concerns, I'd have thought if there was something going on he would have told you when you asked him. If I was you I'd try to hang in there for the next couple of weeks without bringing up your concerns again & see if the situation improves, if it doesn't then sit down with him, explain your concerns & then see what he says.
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