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writes: Myself and my partner live together, we have this mutual friend who came down at the weekend with his partner. On the Sunday night we stayed in and our guests went out for the night. I went to bed at about 2am and my partner said he would follow. However I woke up at about 7am and he wasn't beside me. I got up to find out where he was and found him in the kitchen JUST coming to bed, he was drunk and said that he had been up all night talking to our friends partner. Just the TWO of them!!! Now am I just paranoid or do you think they were up to no good? I did question my partner the next day about it and he said that Nothing happened - but I cant get these pictures out of my head!Please HELP!!!!
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (6 July 2005):
If they sat up all night talking in your own house, I wouldn't worry too much, unless the talks continue or they isolate their "chats" at another location.Keep an eye & ear on the pulse of the situation.Let the female KNOW that he is your man.Communicate your feelings to your partner.Ask him how he would feel if you sat up all night drinking & talking with another man?If he loves & respects you, he will GUARD your relationship & the situation will not repeat itself.If he continues to allow himself to be with other women when you are not present, that's a WAVING RED FLAG !Set your standards, do not compromise, but don't let jealousy or insecurity dictate your emotions.Trust your man...unless he SOLIDLY gives you reason not to.
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reader, becky05 +, writes (4 July 2005):
Where was her partner at this time? I think that your husband was out of order in doing this and you have a right to be angry but the chances are that they probably were just talking. Keep a close eye on things from now on and make it clear to him you wont accept this type of behaviour!
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