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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi all, I am having a problem with my significant other and our sex life, I rarely have an orgasm whenever we have sex, mainly because he puts little to no effort into getting me ready. I will perform oral sex on him etc he does too but not all the time, when he does, it sometimes feels rushed. I usually only reach orgasm in certain positions one of which is missionary. He will only get on top of me for a limited time and change into "doggy style"or me on top. Sometimes he asks if I had an orgasm and I would say no, I have told him before that I need to be stimulated more, I have seen no attempt to improve. I also told him what position works for me but he changes before I can get there. I know he loves me because he adores me tremendously, he always reminds me of how sexy I am. So what is it? I want to have sex with him but I get frustrated in the end cause I'm hardly ever satisfied, it's annoying and at this point I'm almost ready to get it elsewhere.
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reader, Diljeet  +, writes (23 September 2021):
Generally it is difficult to stay longer in missionary for men. in other position like cowgirl and doggy (generally in standing) man can stay a bit longer. I guess he feels that he might ejaculate early in missionary, that's why he changes that position quickly. talk to him that is the only solution i guess.
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reader, Tinacandida  +, writes (27 August 2021):
 Dont please him first. Make him wait until you are ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2021): He sounds like a selfish lover! If you want to stay with him, one thing you could try is masturbating yourself before sex with him. It might make it easier for you have an orgasm with him, and he also might find it exciting.
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