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writes: This is so hard I broke u with my Patner last week we were really happy but I found out that he is love with his best friend and that he has been mailing her and wants to be with her but is unble to because he lives thousands of miles away and she said she is not ready to settle down. I love him very much but don,t want to be second best...I have tried talking to him about it and even his best friend says that he has got to let go of this girl. I stupidly went over there this weekend and he was all over me and was hugging me and telling me he missed me and kissed me well One thing let to another and we slept together we talked after again and he still confused, well I got drunk the next night and went over there casue I just wanted to see him he was not so responsive this time but he had had a drink I know I need to walk away and leave him to it but I am so scared that that will be it and I want him to fight for me. what do I do
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reader, softtouchmale2003  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 First of all booze never fixes heartbreak. It adds to it and creates unhappiness.
Your partner is torn. You have the home advantage. He is in your court not the other woman's court.
Spend time with him and be good to him. Make him see that he has someone special right now who isn't going to go away.
Just do that sober.
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