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writes:help i am a gay man in a relationship i suffer from self esteem issues and recovering bulimic. my partner who i adore has just cheated on me i caught him with a friend of mine after a night out. he thought i was asleep but i wasnt and caught them in the act. he says he is sorry but i am heart broken please help i keep feeling like i want to be with him then i feel worthless and feel like doing myself in please help im\really desperate.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I'm sorry he treated you so badly, you sound like a real sweetie. Please get to your nearest friends or family now and get some love and support. You can't control what other people do, you can only control your own thoughts and actions. Don't isolate yourself and take responsibility for the actions of a really cowardly, thoughtless, worthless human being who put you into this depression, think of all the people who love you instead. You are unique and special to all of your family and friends. It is always hard to break up, especially under these circumstances, but this says nothing wrong about anything you have done, and speaks VOLUMES on that man's character. You deserve so much more, so please reach out and find that person who is out there in your future! You take care of yourself and we are here for you.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (8 March 2007):
 Okay, first of all you are NOT worthless! He doesn't deserve to be with you and you should dump him! He doesn't have an ounce of respect for you if he can have sex with another guy while you're still in the house. You deserve far better and you can get it if you only look.
You also need to build up your confidence and self esteem and see that you ARE of worth and you ARE important! Here are some links I want you to look at to help you with your confidence and self esteem.
http://www.wikihow.com/Build-Self-Confidence
http://pickbrains.com/how-do-i-build-up-my-confidence
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_esteem.htm
http://www.more-selfesteem.com/self_confidence_tips.htm
Find out what you really WANT in life and from life, find yourself again! Take some time out to think about things and what you want to do with your life. We ALL have potential and we all have wonderful qualities and gifts that we can use and share with others. You just need to find out what yours is and what you actually want to achieve in life. Here is another link that will help you.
http://www.wikihow.com/Find-Yourself
Keep thinking positive and you can achieve anything you want to! Watch "The Secret", you can watch it from your own PC immediately for $4.95 (£2.50). This film will definitely put your life back in order and help to upbuild you a hundred fold. In fact it will change your life!!!!
http://thesecret.tv/home.html
Life is a precious gift to be shared with someone you can really love... but you'll never be able to truly love someone if you can't first love yourself. Please have a look at these links and especially watch "The Secret."
You are unique and you deserve the best!!!! Always remember that. Let me know how it goes okay?
Eve
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