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writes:i am seeking advice on wot to do. here goes-my mom an dad have been parting and getting back for about 2 years. her version is he`s got a fancywoman. his version is she is meeting men off the internet. my husband spent 3 hours fixing her laptop which had bad viruses. he shouts me and said i`d better look at this. i couldnt believe wot i was reading. it turns my dad was telling the truth. it was pure sexual conversations and sexual fotos. everytime he left,she`d get drunk,depressed and had everyone goin round feeling sorry for her. they are back and on relaxed terms again,yet secretely she is still doin it. there was nothin i saw sayin that she meets them. now i feel guilty for the bad thoughts against my own dad,and all along he was telling the truth. i cant look him in the eye while i know that she is still doing it. i tried havin a quiet word with her which ended in her telling me i was just as bad as him with an overactive imagination,and called me and my husband liars. she told me to get out and dont come back until i apologise. I want to tell my dad. wot should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): Tell your mother she may end up with pics posted on the web.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): I think your age on this post must be wrong? If you are still living with your parents is there a possibility of you living elsewhere? I think they need to sort their own lives out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): I think he will end up finding out again anyway. As she is probably going to lie to him again,its unlikely she will tell him you know. Even still,i myself would tell him what you saw but water it down so it doesnt hurt him as much. It must be very embarrassing for him. What she is doing is mentaly cruel. She is cheating and decieving him daily. The fact that she lies about it,knowing he knows she's lying has probably killed his faith. She is going the wrong way about dealing with their issues and has no respect for him or herself. He needs to know.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (9 February 2010):
Remember that you still don't know whether your father is seeing another woman or not. You have only proved that your mother is lying. You tried to tell your mother, so this time tell her again straight you saw the conversations on the internet and that unless she tells you the truth, you'll have to tell your father.
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