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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My mum doesn't love all her kids equally. She loves her boys more than her girls. It's making me very angry, she treats them like they're the most important things in the world. I've heard her talking about me to my brother. They get to go on holidays and me, I get to go nowhere, I'm just stuck at home with this crap. I want to go somewhere too. She won't admit that she loves her precious boys more than her girls, but I can see it all the time. I don't think she realises that she loves them more. Can I ever make her change? You probably think this is stupid but it's making me really upset, I've just been sat crying. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008): i think she doesnt understand you and what you feel you need to talk to her and tell her your feelings maybe you might think she loves you less but she may not she might love you all the same all you need to do is talk to her and find out her thoughts
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 I think the only way she's going to find out that you are upset about this if is if you sit down and talk to her.
Say to her that you feel completely pushed away and that you sometimes feel that she wants nothing to do with you.]
She may just not have realised that the way she's acting is affecting you so much. The only way you're going to find out and the only way she's going to know what she's doing is if you talk to her. Talk to her on her own, don't talk to her with your brothers, but if your sister is willing and if she's feeling the same way, maybe you should get your sister to talk to your mum at the same time? Don't yell at your mum though, just say that you feel something's not right.
Say things beginning with " I feel" or "It seems" don't accuse her with " you have been" because she can't blame you for how you feel, but she CAN blame you if you accuse her.
I hope this helps.
Take care xx
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