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He wants me to prove myself by dancing for him....any pointers??

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Question - (12 February 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2008)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This is for the females that like to fulfill their mans fantasy or wishes. Or for the Men out there that know what they want with a sexual dance.

Has anyone ever danced for their boyfriend or husband before? If so, please help me because my boyfriend told me to prove myself to him, that if I feel so comfortable around him or that I love him that I will over come some fears and build up my confidence...

Well, he wants me to dance for him in my baby doll... Thing is I don't know how to do anything, so can someone give me some pointers on what to do, how to move?? I really need this, and would really appreciate it.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

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Sorry, not being rude but I asked for pointers.

As in, advice on dance moves, music... stuff like that

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

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Sorry, I dont mean to be rude.. But I'm asking for Pointers as in moves to do.. Music to put on, and how long I should take....

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2008):

hello1 agony auntIf my b/f said I had to prove myself too him by dancing, that would be a right turn off.

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (12 February 2008):

Tisha-1 agony auntHmmm.. I don't like the hint of sexual blackmail...

I would probably turn the tables on him by saying that you will dance for him, but that he needs to break the ice by dancing for you first so that you understand what he's looking for...

But I don't like the sound of it in the first place....

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A female reader, duskyrowe United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2008):

duskyrowe agony auntDon't get pressured into dancing for him just to prove that you love him. In a way this is kind of emotional blackmail, sure having his lover dancing provocatively is most guys fantasy, but don't be cajoled into it.

Confidence comes within and not dancing like a lap dancer.

Do you lack in self confidence? If you do then I don't think him telling you to dance sexily is helping.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

Why are you doing this if you are uncomfortable and/or don't want to do it then don't! You don't have to prove yourself to him by dancing, there is other stuff, if he is demanding you to do this then you can find some one better.

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