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anonymous
writes:Okay so me and my b/f were fooling around in my living room last saturday while my parents were out at the movies. After my parents came home my mom called me into the kitchen for a private talk. She said that my dad and her were pretty upset at me because the living room smelled like sex when they walked in. What the hell does that mean? I kinda told my mom a white lie that we werent having sex, but she told me that made her more upset that I lied to her face. She insisted that she smelled sex. She grabbed my hand and told me that she even smelled my boyfriend on my fingers and that I am lying to her. Now she has stopped talking to me because she thinks I lied to her.Can my mom really smell sex or is she testing me? I was thinking that I would just her that I rubbed his privates but that is as far as we went. Do you think that would work? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Yup. You can defintly smell sex, mostly the sweat from your bodies. I can always tell when me roommate has sex with her boyfriend cus the apartment smells like sex. Its a combo of a woman's privates, body sweat and if there is enough of it, a guys load. I think she smelled sweat and female privates and maybe his ball smell on your hands. I notice that ball smell on my fingers after sex, so I am sure she smelled that on your hands. Sorry to say sweetie you are busted. Be mature and have a serious talk wiht yur mum..
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): Well your mother dealt with the situation badly by humiliating you about your sexual activity - this is really not the way she should have come across. Please don't be ashamed by what you did - hey you are young and experimenting. The best way of handling it is by staying calm, being mature and demonstrating to your parents that you are quickly becoming an adult. With this in mind, you should tell your mother that whilst you can understand her concern her reaction was overboard and you are your boyfriend did get serious but that sex did not happen - and that you understand the importance of being careful etc etc. You respect her privacy and that the situation will not arise at home again. It will be best in future if you are your guy want privacy to find another venue. You will soon be an adult and your sex life will be private from that point onwards. In the meantime cool things down a little?
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reader, dirtball +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Yes, you can smell sex, especially if you have a good sense of smell. Genetalia have a distinct smell, as do the fluids produced through sexual action. You've been busted. You can try your lie, but I doubt it will work.
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