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writes:How do i know if im living with some one with narcissium? he display some of the sytems but not all...Talks to me like dirt when things dont go right for him, he always blames me yet when he is in puplic he treats me lovely he always use sarcasum to me and my 9 yr old daughter im due to go away shortly to be married, dont know what to do.I have read if you want to leave you must first seek help please where do i get help , everyone thinks he his lovely and he does help lots of people. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): Don't bother with a label for it. Whatever it is it ain't good for you or your daughter who will undoubtedly be damaged by this man's influence.
I would end it and find someone who treats you with the respect you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 June 2010): It does sounds like he has many narcissistic qualities, but he may not be a full fledged narcissist. A narcissist usually does not recognize their flaws, for they are way too self centered to recognize their failings. Does he have an undeserved sense of self worth and accomplishment over even the most mundane things (or nothing)? Is he basically stupid, but does not think so?
Blaming others when things go wrong can be a narcissitic trait. Sarcasm, when done to embarrass others for what is perceived to be a stupid action, is not always narsicissm.
Living with a narcissist is very difficult. You must be emotionally numb to deal with that existence.
Regardless of the narcissism issue, you just sound like you don't want to marry this guy. So don't. Just don't do it.
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