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36-40,
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writes: A month ago I started a rebound relationship with my best friend. it was a mutual rebound but in the past month we started falling for each other. Then he found out he was moving, and moved about a hour away from here. The only problem is, my mom doesn't like him. she doesn't trust him at all. She won't tell me why or talk to my about it or anything, and she often refuses to let me see him or hang out with him. I'm worried she might come between us or not let me go visit him.what do I do? I don't want to tell him my mom doesn't like him for no reason and I can't go see him, but I'm running out of excuses that keep me here.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 July 2010):
A few years ago, I didn't listen to my mother over something. I paid the price, and she could have said 'I told you so'. Fortunately, she didn't. I hate to tell you this, bit more than frequently mother's are right. If she doesn't trust him, there will be a good reason for it. I she won't tell you, then maybe it's something that will really hurt you. But you can be pretty much sure that she's right about him. Maybe this is one of those times to trust your mother and take her at her word.
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