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writes:does he love me, never told me.I'm seeing a guy now for 4-5 months. At first month we broke up cause he wasn't sure he was ready for a relationship, as he'd only been split with his ex of 8 years, about 7 months ago. Then he came back, said he missed me and said that he was fully commited to our relationship since.I feel very in love with him but haven't told him.He is with me almost all the time - the only time we are not together is when we go out with friends (not very often)We have been many places together and are booked to go on holiday abroad. He is realy excited about this, but think mainly because he was in a boring routine relationship with kids so never had chance to go anywhere.He can get insecure and has admitted putting his guard up because he thinks I am going off him. He also gets jealous sometimes because he thinks I'm flirty person, which i have tried to rain in.overall we have a laugh together and talk about all different things. He says he learns off me and compliments me being intelligent.He is very affectionate and once went into a mood becuase i hadn't hugged him - he said he craved affection from me at this stage in the rleationship.He does take care of me and offers me his car when mine not working and helps me look for a new one.I feel as though he is in love with me,,,but then sometimes a shadow of doubt is cast because whenever I am insecure he only reassures me with "you must know that i really LIKE you".but no LOVE mentioned.We have had the conversation about the future and we have discussed the idea of having children. He has got two but says he would give me a child in the future, but that it was "music to his ears" that I didn't want one too near in the future as he already has two and wants to live a bit now.We have also discussed about buying a place but have said that we will see what happens in the fture.I have been out with him and his children many times when it is his weekends to have them. he has also put going for a meal with my mum and dad over going out with his friend for a game of pool, even though the latter was arranged first. He also comes to see me even if he is tired or ill.Is he even slightly in love with me? or just not sure,,, i feel so insecure about it all but don't want to end up hurt cos of what he did in the beginning when he wasn't sure. help
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): Hello,
Actions speak louder than words sometimes. I'd say he's in love with you. You mentioned he uses the "like" word to you, I feel he's just being cautious about throwing the "love" word too soon.
Give it a bit more time, and see what happens. I can surely say based on what you've written he cares deeply for you...
Good luck
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