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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband is a little shy in some ways in the bedroom. I know what i want and i have talked to him about having a desire to fulfill his fantasies as well as he fulfill mine, but he seems to intimidated, and doesn't. Sex is really good, but its not as elaborate and leaves me with no orgasm, only intense climax. He has talked about some things he likes, fantasies or different positions that he would want to try, or even sex games, role playing, ect, but doesn't. i tell min i feel the same and i try to go for it, but he is too awkward about it. I know our communication in the bedroom needs some work, but i am very open minded for any sort of sex, position, dirty talk, whatever. i try to act it out, he rarely feels comfortable about doing so. All in all, because he is shy, timid, it makes me feel i cant feel comfortable about pleasing him. basically for him its just get in and out, and i need more than that, and i know he wants more than that too. the problem is i have to wait til my husband comes home on leave for r and r becasue he is deployed. please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): i am so slow with him, i let him do whatever he wants and all it is to him is just for his own satisfaction, either because hes too shy or i feel like im just not interesting to him. so he does whatever he wants, and its never anything elaborate, and its all about him.
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reader, Kenneth +, writes (31 July 2009):
Slow down a little bit woman. You are probably too aggressive for him.May be then he will come around. Goodluck
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