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writes:Advice! Husband drinks then gets loud, aggressive, spits at me, calls me scum and tells me he has had better than me. Have endured two yrs of verbal abuse from his ex who has his kids! He done nothing about it. I now refuse to visit his family as they think its ok for her to do this. And think its normal for men to 'crack the whip'. they dont talk to me anyway cos I called police on him. got back with him but he started again yesterday before I went to work.I was putting on weight after anorexia, but Im beginning to think he likes me ill, cos he always starts when Im ready for work before I eat. Weight now low, he screams at me n says im nasty and evil. Left him again, but is it me? He earns good money, I earn not enough to support me, the property in his name, I actully got kicked out legally and am not entitled to council help as classed as single white female. Rock and hard stone?
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 Look with what his verbal abuse has caused you. He has caused you to blame yourself for his cruel and selfish actions. You are not the blame for his actions at all. Yes he has money but that is no excuse and it does not justify that he can treat you as if you were nothing. Sweetie leave and go far from him. You deserve better. Your better than him. Maybe not finacially but mentally and emotionally. He's a coward. He looks down on you because you give him the power to feel greater and more of a man.
Stand up for yourself. Let him go and get out of there as soon as possible before things get out of hand. Be smart honey. You deserve a better love and someone who will cherish you for who you are. Give yourself more dignity. Obviously this runs in the family so this is nothing he isnt use to. He must have witnessed this in his family so he thinks its just as right for him to do the same. Herather be the abuser than the victim. Dont let him get to you. Your stronger than he is. Be smart and seek help fast. You dont need him and you dont need to suffer over a coward. Forget the money and forget what he does. Your better. Remember that!
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reader, auvi  +, writes (2 December 2007):
go and see a lawyer. i dont see any reason why you should try and stay with this man. also my sympathies that you had to tolerate something this this for so long.
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