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anonymous
writes:my husband does not kiss me and has not kissed me in months, he also does not say he love me and he does not have an interest in oral sex(when performing it on me) what should i do and do you see any love or likeness here?
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reader, LilzDon'tKnow +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Talk to him, tell him what you feel, and i would kiss him and tell him you love him first. If there is no reply then there is something on his mind. If there was an argument to start this then he is probably still mad. If there is no arguement or reason for stress then i would personally assume that he met someone. But you don't assume that unless there is nothing wroong with his work social life or fights in the relationship. He is probably just stressed out and may know something that he doesn't know how to tell you. I wouldn't personally know, i haven't been givin enough information, but letting you know the poosibilities.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Well you should take these signs seriously, especially if they are a significant change in his behavior. I am not saying you should panic, on the contrary just relax. However, clearly something's up and not right. So don't ignore it.
There could be a number of reasons why he has changed. Perhaps he is going through something significant in his life and he is stressed out. Or maybe he feels that you both haven't been communicating very well and so he is acting distant. And of course, the worst case scenario is that perhaps he met someone else.
Whatever the reason for his indifference, you musn't ignore it. Your best bet is to talk to him. Calmly ask him what's up and if there is anything he would like to talk to you about in regards to your relationship. Hopefully he will be honest with you and tell you what's going on. And if not, I would definitely monitor the situation carefully. Don't get crazy or anything. But, if he won't talk to you, try on your own to find out what is going on with him. Because there is definitely a REASON for him being this way and obviously you would like to know. It could be nothing or it could be something major.
And most of all try to see if anything else has changed in his routine. Is he staying out later than usual? Is he getting suspicious phone calls? Has he been hiding stuff from you?
But get to the bottom of it that way you know and you can deal with it as you need to. But whatever you do, don't ignore it. Just get to the bottom of it.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 Hi Hun
I would speak with him love, Why has the affection stopped? Your really unhappy and if he cant see this there is something very wrong with him. If you can sit down and ask him if anything is on his mind and see what he says if he trys to put you off with a nothing reply just say well I asked because I have something on my mind that I feel we need to speak about..And tell him how you feel and if he needs to speak with you about anything. You cant go on just wondering why this is happening you need to know were you stand sweetheart so take the bull by the horns hunny and ask him whats going on, This is the only way you will get to the bottom of this problem, I do hope things get better TAKE CARE WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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