A
female
age
41-50,
*emy
writes:Ok I am asking anyone please I need some good advice, I would really like for some men to respond as well, ok so here is my problem, my husband does not take the time to do anything wit me, im always the one who always telling him lets do this or lets do that, but he never does that for me and when I try to explain that he gets mad. Why is that? I know I am a good woman, I cook, I clean, I make sure dinner is cooked, I dont run the streets, I dont party, so my thing is when I approach him he is always saying and I quote Let me be a man! His brothers all drink and when he gets around them he does the same, whenever I am working on the weekend he tends to go around them and he drinks with them and dont know when to come home, to me if he were a rea man he would not be out there getting drunk, if he were a real man he would put my feelings first. But as we all can see he dont. Sure he help pay bills and help around the house, but what about my feelings? I cant talk to him all he does is get angry and I dont understand it. He claims that he loves me and I am the best thing that has happend to him but why dont I feel that way? No he does not party, or club, so my question is, what am I to do please help. I fear my marrage may be over
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reader, freeme +, writes (5 June 2011):
 Hmm. It sounds like he is in a bit of a rut and is taking you for granted. This is a really tough one. You might want to consider letting him take care of himself for awhile and see how that plays out. Let him do the laundry, cook, clean etc. If you are a stay at home wife, tell him you want to go get a job and you two will have to share the chores. That might be a place to start...
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