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writes:My husband moved out and I later found out via Twitter he'd moved in with my dad (and my mom isn't happy at the amount of time they're spending together at all).He keeps posting to social media videos of them dancing to disco music in their underwear or wrestling one another with music on, and it's just embarrassing.There's about 10-20 videos of these silly mock fighting and even a weird video of my dad pouring melted chocolate over my husband's body (my husband wearing nothing but boxer shorts) and James Brown music playing.This is insane.I'm embarrassed over the whole thing and when I sent a WhatsApp to my husband... no response.Phoning my dad to try and ask why my husband moved in... no response, other than angry speech!I've got a 8-year-old son who doesn't understand what the coronavirus is and feel like a single mom. My husband was a good dad... and he does THIS??I don't understand why he does it, and neither will respond to me.I phoned my mom and she said it's like living with teenagers, she feels as if she has to move in with me to get away from it.How the hell can I get over this, is this a weird crisis my husband's going through?I feel like I have to be mom and dad to my son.Just need some help before I get too stressed out.
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reader, CarrieSoa  +, writes (17 February 2021):
 This is giving off troll vides but .... I'll respond in case it's a real problem.
What is confusing you about your husband and fathers behaviour? It is clear as day that they are having a sexual relationship. What is even more shocking is that you and your mother do not see that.
I would keep your husband and father as far away from those children and you can get. Get your mother to come stay with you as she is a victim in this as much as you and the children are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2021): These acts that they are involved in sound intimate not just messing around . Hence no word from your dad . I think If I were you, I would make it public we are separated and I would be seeking a divorce due to the behaviour . I would save these clips as proof . Sorry honey but to me this doesnt look good at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2021): It sounds like they are lovers.Sorry your dad and husband are into each other.They are gay.Time to divorce and move on.Get those kids into therapy also...This is gonna mess them up big time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2021): Wow honestly you think you have heard it all and then something like this pops up. What can you do they are not babies. Tbh I think they are both gay and they have recognised this in each other and have got together come what may. I think your MIL should move in with you and you both work to isolate your son so he doesn't know what is going on and just wait to see when this madness is going to end.
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