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*lliebellie
writes:hey!Basically i like this guy and weve been out twice. I see him everyday and hes reallt nice etc. The only thing is that: my friend likes this guy but they're not as close as me and my guy are but they still tell each other how much they like each other. Last night she said he sent her a text saying luv you and i miss you. My guy never really does anything like that. I don't know whether he's shy or what but i mean i really like him and he says he likes me but he never really tells me he loves me or misses me and i kind of feel like he doesn't really like me anymore....please helpelliexxx
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (2 December 2007):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all so much :) i guess my guy is much shyer than my friends guy and i suppose i need to get to know him a bit better.thanks all of you lolelliexxx
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 No two guys are alike and no two relationships are alike. Please learn this right now-it is dangerous for you to compare your relationship to anyone elses. You will only find things to be disappointed in. Enjoy your guy for what he is. He sounds like he's nice to you. Some guys just aren't mushy or wordy but give him credit for what he is.
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reader, fifi the1st  +, writes (1 December 2007):
as it seems from your question you have only been out with this guy twice, give it a while, it may take weeks or even months for him to open up to you about how he feels, just because your friends guy tells her how he feels it doesnt mean that you dont have as good a relationship with your guy. give it time, enjoy being with him and trust me you probably have just as good a relationship with your guy. from my experience there's no point in a guy telling you his feelings if he doesnt show them or prove them. Look at your guy, does he do nice things for you, does he call when he syas he will etc?? These are all signs he likes you without actually telling you. Relax and things will be fine, maybe he thinks its too soon to tell you how he feels.
Hope this helps you :-)
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reader, fifi the1st +, writes (1 December 2007):
as it seems from your question you have only seen this guy twice, give it a while, it may take weeks or even months for him to open up to you about how he feels, just because your friends guy tells her how he feels it doesnt mean that you dont have as good a relationship with your guy. give it time, enjoy being with him and trust me you probably have just as good a relationship with your guy. from my experience there's no point in a guy telling you his feelings if he doesnt show them or prove them. Look at your guy, does he do nice things for you, does he call when he syas he will etc?? These are all signs he likes you without actually telling you. Relax and things will be fine, maybe he thinks its too soon to tell you how he feels.
Hope this helps you :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): Stop comparing your guy with your friends guy you don't want a clone boyfriend. Maybe he don't like texting I love you. Maybe he's more for saying it face to face. Or maybe better at showing, than talking.
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