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reader, roro15  +, writes (9 November 2009):
Hey i no something that will make you feel better
(a friend told me this so don't think I'm crazy)
take a good look at yourself in the mirror and say "if i were a guy I'd so date me"
i sounds so crazy but it actually makes you feel better
(this is also assuming you're straight but you can change it if you're not)
there's also nothing wrong with crying sometimes it can really make you feel better just to get it out
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2008): I am crying alot for no reason at the moment. Life feels crap at the moment and I think thats why. I had to ask for time off work yesterday to go on holiday, I cried!!!! Sad but true I feel freekish. Think my hormones are all oiver the place or Im going loopy
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reader, SophieAnnx +, writes (2 December 2007):
Hey babe,It's nothing unusal, everyone does it but im the same at times i just cry and i dont have a reason and at other times i do but most of the time i dont. Don't worry about it its nothing, your just very emotional.Love Sophie x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Nothings wrong with you! It just seems like you are better at letting your feelings out than other people - perhaps more emotional. But that's alright...Its probably better to let your feelings out instead of letting them bottle-up inside you.
I know its hard being a teenager and suddenly it seems like there are so many more problems in the world and so much more pressure - but don't forget the good times too!
There will be times when life is tough - but you just have to go through it and then you can cheer up again when you're through it.
Keep smiling :)
x x x
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (2 December 2007):
elliebellie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys! thank you all so much for your answers :) by the way to the guy who replied.....i dont really mind which gender replies any replies are really good for me so thank you for sharing your story for me even if it was hard for you.thanks againlolelliexxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): i kno u wouldnt expect a guy to respond to this but this used to happen to memy grandfather and my uncle died when i was 7 and 8 respectivelyand when i was 11 or 12 i actually came to the realization they were dead because i used to be too young to realize itand i started repressing it but then i started crying randomlyso one day i laid down and started crying for no reason againbut i listened to this lyfe jennings song where he said it was ok for guys to cry and so i tried letting goi cried for a half an hour straight and i never felt better afterwardsnow i dont cry for no reason anymorelisten to the song cry by lyfe jennings (i think thats the name) and just let go itll feel really good
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reader, YerMum +, writes (1 December 2007):
 It's the same with me. If you're being pressured at school or by friends, stress or anything.But sometimes it makes you feel better to sit down and have a good cry YM xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): eh... i am going through the same thing. you need to write down what is wrong with you and then write a solution for all these problems and put it somewhere visible to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2007): i know what you meansometimes theres just no reasonim 15 and im the samei think that its just the pressures...you hide it first of all...then some time later you just cry...and you think theres no reason... but really there isyouv'e just forgotten what it is...theres always a reasoneven if we dont know what it is
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