A
female
age
30-35,
*hibi vampire
writes:hello everyone u could called me chibi, so here the deal i meet this boy on june 13 on a simple boat ride, we get along quite well. but we jump into the relationship to soon. but i thought it was ok because we both like each other so much and we where confortable about anything.here the deal we been seeing each other 3 weeks, he tell me all his last gf cheated on him. but i never had a bf or anything so i know i won't then am also a nice girl. i cook and clean and i go to college. but he's use to being with thease fuck up chicks that are drugs and all that crap. so we go on dates and i try to be the best girl friend he ever had by making some snack, understanding him.and now he tell' me he think's we began so fast because he might still have feeling for his ex gf. who cheated on him and they been seperated for 2 moths. also that he is scare of taking away my virginity and being that guy that when u brake up that yull say damn it hate u u took it from me give back?i don't understand now he tell' me he think's am to good for him and that he really likes me but he wants time to think and see what he really feels cause of this situasion.
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reader, Azula  +, writes (9 July 2009):
 The problem is your too good to be true and by that I want you for my brother, just kidding.OK. Well said and put together with regards to the point and thought. The problem is clearly pointed out.You are far away traditional and completely the opposite of his past. And it was too fast. Here imagine this.You are living in a hot dessert then suddenly you were put in Antarctica in a second.It will be a great instability.The answer is yes he really needs time. But since it is new to you, you cannot take the worries off your shoulder right?Here's the deal, you need to trust him but while doing that ready yourself for the worst thing that could happen.By that it will not be that painful but still painful if it turned out bad. But will a good relief If it turned out good.Just be a companion for now and enjoy his company.
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