A
male
age
30-35,
*hukwudike
writes:I met her on Facebook two weeks ago we became friends. She lives in another state we haven't seen each other apart from pictures. I fell in love with her she says she loves me as well. I noticed she doesn't want people to know especially her friends. Three day ago i sent her a message just to say i loved her. She sent a reply that she had to tell me the truth that she didn't exactly break up with her boyfriend that they decided to give each other a break. And he's been calling for them to get back together. I was dejected, she went ahead to still say she loved me but also loved her boyfriend. I now knew why she wanted us to be a secret. I love her so much we are to meet next week what do i do
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (10 July 2009):
 You are in love with the idea of being 'in love'. You haven't met this girl and I recommend that you do not see her. You don't know her off-line at all - and that would be the basis of finding out if you love her. You think you are in love on the basis of an online persona which may not reflect anything of who she is in reality. Moreover, she has already told a lie about her relationship situation and you do not need to be dragged into a love triangle with another man. You maybe rebound guy who is being used for attention until her boyfriend comes back. I suggest that you take care about who you meet over the internet as there will be lots of people hiding secrets behind their computer screens.
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