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writes: Dear Cupid, I was going out with this guy for about two weeks. It seems like such a short time, but I had soo many feelings for him. I was almost sure that we were in love. Neither of us were self conscious of what the other one thought or anything. It was a great healthy relationship. Until he broke up with me, because he had heard rumors, which were not true, and didn't bring them up to me. Seven months later, I still recieve signs that he likes me, and I hav'n't yet gotten over him. I asked him out, but he denied me. I dont want to give up. I am going through hell without him. How do I get him back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2005): I agree with big sis
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (6 June 2005):
 Prove to him that the rumours were false! If it's your word against others and can't be proven then you may just have to accept that he's not going to believe you.It sounds like you're young and 2 weeks of going out might seem like a lifetime but you will get over it. I'm pretty sure that love cannont develop that quickly, only superficial lust which is equally quickly dispelled.
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (5 June 2005):
 Let him go. Stressing out about how he feels about what others have said to him true or not, is not worth it. Why you want a relationship with a guy who believes everyone else except you? Yes, missing him does hurt. But believe me, you will get over it. And who knows, maybe you'll find a person worthy of your feelings and will trust and believe you. Gossip is everywhere, some people believe and some don't. Find a guy that doesn't follow gossip. Take care.
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