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*milia_shayner
writes:Ok..so ive been with this guy for about a year and 4 months..i love him so much but there has been a lot of bumps in this road.to begin with, i had a really big family issue where basically my mother told him that i was a manipulative bitch and all these other untrue things about me. This pist him off so bad that he put his hands on me but it didnt leave any marks. Like the police officers said they couldnt do anything about it bc of the lack of marks. and my mother was arrested that day and has been PROVEN to be mentally sick.to say the least this broke us up for a month, during which he went and slept with his ex of three years. The last time being on the day that we decided to get back together. This still hurts me to this day.We fight nonstop and we also have been told by many people that we shouldnt be together. I feel like a lot of the fighting is my fault but for the most part i just cant trust him and he cant trust me as ive also slept with an ex of two years during one of our many break ups.Im 16 years old and we have been inseperable for the most part during our relationship. As of rite now, i feel like this is a bad relationship, but i love him. What should we do?
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reader, emilia_shayner +, writes (4 July 2010):
emilia_shayner is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the responses...We have tried the new slate thing and it's improved things. He only has put his hands on me once and it wasnt a hit or anything it was a push onto the bed and he grabbed my wrists.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): you should either start a clean slate where neither of you can bring up the past or you should really just break up because there has been too much going on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Uh, I found this site because I thought I had problems in my relationship... turns out yours is way worse. You need to end it and accept that some people aren't meant to be together. Relationships shouldn't be too much work, at least not in the beginning, and it sounds like you've had problems from the get go. All your friends have told you the same thing - why don't you listen to them?
And actually, since you've had so many family problems, you might want to visit a counselor as well - you may not see it now, but you'll have serious relationship barriers in the future if you don't listen to some other people
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