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*immothy16
writes:my girlfriend for about a year now says she's fed up with me and wants a break. so two days have gone by and then brings up out of nowhere why she wanted to go on a break in the first place, as if i asked about it, which i didn't. i haven't one time asked or even mentioned anything about getting back together from the time she started the break to when she brings it up out of nowhere. So then after a couple hours later, i accidentally said something that pissed her off and she said "damn you really get on my nerves, dats why i wanted a break in the first place", so i respond with "look im sorry alright, do you wanna talk to me later (because were on the computer chatting), then she said "yeah". So i put "ok then i understand i piss you off sometimes, i'll just give you your space and leave you alone". Then she quicky puts "no..........i love you" (before she logged off).the question im tryin to ask is, is she starting to miss me already?and what are some signs that she is missing me?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (15 January 2010):
You put "I haven't even asked her why" as though that is a good thing.
If I told a guy I liked that I wanted a break and said "yeah ok then" I'd be REALLY hurt. It just makes you look like you don't give a crap.
You two need to either learn to talk to eachother about things and listen and reach a compromise... or split up.
It sounds like you've both let it get so far that a split up might be the best thing.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (15 January 2010):
I would suggest that this has gone as far as it can. Fed up with you? She didn't even talk to you about it, she just went on a break. That's a really bad sign, because it means that she can't face problems or communicate in a relationship properly. Instead, she's just run away and hoped it will get better. Quit being second best and tell her it's over. Seriously, you're being strung along by a woman who needs to mature a bit I think. Don't waste your time being second best.
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