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writes: I'm going out with a girl and we have been together for 3years. The relationship hasn't been very easy as we both had issues but we sorted it out and were really happy, but it's her mum. She's trying to split us up as she doesn't like me as to her I'm a waste of space and things like that.It hurts though as her mum liked me but since we both came out of prison, things have been weird. I know she doesnt blame me for her daughter being in prison as it was my girlfriend's fault in the 1st place. My girlfriend is not the most honest when it comes to explaining things to her mum and I know that when we have an arguement she makes out that I'm the bad one, so wondering if that's painted bad picture of me. My girlfriend won't even let me speak to her mum so we can sort it out. I feel betrayed as they were nice to me before I went on holiday, then Icame back to all this slagging off they had said to her when I was in America.We want children and things but I know I can't be with someone whose mum is hating everything about me. Should I let her go, as this isn't the first time they have slagged me off and tried splitting us up?
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reader, missdee +, writes (18 September 2005):
People can only split you up if you let them, but sound like your girlfriend is doing a good enough job of splitting you two up to begin with. She needs to let her, you, and her mum all sit down in one room together and get some things straight.
If your girlfriend has told lies on you, to her mum she needs to tell the truth now! and not lie about you anymore. If her mum has a problem with you other than what her daughter has told her, she needs to get over it. If her daughter is happy that should be enough for her. Your girlfriend should put her foot down with her mum and tell her that.
If you can't work it out with her mum, and she can't or won't stop her from making trouble then you do need to move on.
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