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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes: I got back with my ex boyfriend after a break up of two years and no communication. We broke up because he does not respect time and likes coming at my place at night and hardly during the day. We went out twice since we got back together and I miss him. I feel comfortable around him the chemistry is great. He said he loves me too and wants us to get back together but now im confused because he never calls me unless he wants to see me. He hardly text me i have to be the one to say "Hi" for him to text me. Im getting frustrated I dont know what to do now. Do you think he cares about me or am i just wasting my time?
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reader, Been there Now over it +, writes (24 December 2015):
He may care about you but very, very little. You deserve somebody who cares about you a lot. You say that, "he never calls me unless he wants to see me." What if we added a word here; "he never booty calls me unless he wants to see me." Does that better describe the situation??? If so, the answer is yes, you are wasting your time. Good luck...I hope 2016 finds you with someone who really cherishes and cares about you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2015): We get intimate all the time. Last night i called him to question him about everything i dont understand in our situation. He told me he was still seeing someone but they having problems and currently not talking. Its clear now he is not thinking about me.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 December 2015):
when he comes to see you what do you both do? Do you spend quality time together, go out on dates, or are you both being intimate when he visits?
If it is a case that he calls over and you are both being intimate then it sounds to me like he is just using you and you would be better off without him. He is showing no signs that he loves you or wants to be with you.
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