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writes:my girlfriend is a divorced mother of three children. her youngest child is a 2 year old girl she had with an ex-fiancee. we have been dating for 3 months and now her ex is trying to weasel his way back into her life saying he wants to be a family with her. he has a lot of money and is trying to use that money to persaude her.she says she loves me and at times seems to be tempted to get back with ex since she is having financial trouble.it makes me feel insecure when she spends time with ex so he can see their daughter.What do i do?
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reader, xplo  +, writes (7 October 2007):
hi there i understand how u feel but its not for u to decide besides d breakup is still fresh theres room for make up,i think u should really get a life i mean a family of ur own,comon man three kids is no joke besides she nids all d money she can get to raise those kids if u ask me i ll say respect what ever decision she takes she married him had 3 kids for him its there was love and that love can still be refreshed.get a fresh girl and have ur own family my dear.
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reader, xplo +, writes (7 October 2007):
hi there i understand how u feel but its not for u to decide besides d breakup is still fresh theres room for make up,i think u should really get a life i mean a family of ur own,comon man three kids is no joke besides she nids all d money she can get to raise those kids if u ask me i ll say respect what ever decision she takes she married him had 3 kids for him its there was love and that love can still be refreshed.get a fresh girl and have ur own family my dear.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 the thing is when you have children and you have financal problems you will do anything to make sure they have a roof over there heads so when someone comes along even if it is the horrible ex you will be tempeted to get back with them. talk to her about it, she has to choice the moneyor you. but of course he ia allowed to see the kids but its really upsetting you that just because he has money he can just come back when he choses its not right and you need to tell her and him this.
good luck xxx
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