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writes:I know some people wont take this seryously but im 15 years old and me n my gf are going strong with 1 month and 2 weeks we everyone says its just a highschool relationship and it wont last but were the type of couple who are gonna be highschool sweet hearts people tell us they can tell just how we look at eachother...but when i make plans with her to go to the mall simce cristmas just came around i have money n would like to go shopping with her sometime i made plans for the sunday after new years eve weekend she said shed love to go and the plans were set in stone we had this alllllll planed out then her friend out of know where made plans for after we were done shoping. ( this friend thave known eachother since kindergarden there sisters basically.) i said that was fine after cause well be done with her date well her friend wants her to spend the night so now my gf has to have a bag full of clothes walking to the mall not that big of a deal butttt the friend says she wants to rent movies all day n have a movie day so my gf is choosing to be with her friend whos like her sister who she sees 24/7 and guess what happens she chooses her!!! I cant say anything cause then no matter how i say it it sounds like im saying dont hang out with ur friends hangout with me which sounds bad but im at my wits end to just tell her that n i dont wanna be that boyfriend who says that n breaking up with her isnt a option but this has happend soooo much that idk what to do please help:.(
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reader, GaNsTa_PaNda_HuGGz  +, writes (2 January 2012):
 I see what you mean.. It could be that saying, "Bro's over Ho's" I'm not really sure about the girl version of that.. But If she's known her Best Friend longer then you, Maybe you're just going to have to accept it, try all making plans together, and maybe you can all be friends? You don't have to dump her over something like this, If you really love her. I Hope it works out. For all of you guys.. =]
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reader, Shadow Rose +, writes (1 January 2012):
 Just tell her as nicely as possible that it made you kind of sad that you didn't get to spend time with her, like you planned. Ask if you can make other plans, and say that you really want to have time with her. Just dont be harsh about it.
If she constantly choses her friend over you, then, honestly, talk to her about it, and if she doesn't stop, then you should break up.... But only if she doesn't stop.
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