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writes: i dont kno how to put this but im 23 year old i work my ass everyday and my girlfriend she is such a bitch to everyone and shes lazy always and she always goes out and leaves the baby with me and should i just move on with my live and find someone eles or what what should i do i just want to find someone that is grown up and that is happy everyday i try my bast to talk to her about how i feel but nothing works she doesnt care about anything its like everything is about her and im soo tired of it day in and day out please help
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reader, dirtball +, writes (19 July 2010):
Yup, sounds like she checked out. I'm reminded of an Offspring song... Time for you to put your foot down.
Any joint bank accounts? Close them and put them in your name ASAP. Get your affairs in order and kick her to the curb. The hardest part will be the child care, but I'm sure you can find something suitable.
Good news is, that you should be able to get full custody since she has nothing going for her to be able to support a child.
"Well my friend, you gotta say...
I won't pay, I won't pay ya
no waaaay,
Nah nah why don't you get a job!"
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2010): there is a reason for everything. is she really lazy or a bitch or is there things she needs to deal with and she is not dealing with them responsibly.
maybe she needs to get a medical checkup, bloodwork, make sure her body is on key. If your body gets out of whack, you can get yourself into a rut and not even know it, and not mean to be that way, but are because you don't know how to get out of it on your own. So, suggest medical checkup, or do it in some way that it won't offend her, and still get her help. maybe ask her mom or suggest it to someone who can "get" to her.
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reader, Beauty V Brains +, writes (19 July 2010):
tell her she better get her act together or your out x
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