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writes:My relationship lasted for 1 year then I broke up with her. I apologized within 24 hours and wanted her back but she said no she needed more time to think about getting back together.We got back together 1 month later. I asked her if she did anything with any other guy, she said no.2 weeks later I asked her the same question, only because I had my suspicions. She said yes... they had sex... 4 times... starting 2 weeks after our breakup.Unbelievable... especially considering All 3 of us work together... I'm stressing hardcore... any advice?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 October 2009):
Well let's be fair. You weren't together, you did dump her which will have hurt, then you asked for her to come back, which will have confused her, and she went in search of comfort. Don't be harsh on her and don't be stressed about it, she was hurting. The reason she initially didn't say anything was because she knew you'd be upset. But she did own up. I think you both need to really put alot of effort in now, and you need to forgive her for lying. As for the third guy, forget about him. Really spend time getting to know her again and make sure she knows she's loved. You'll find that these feelings will start to go away so long as you put all your effort into fixing your relationship.
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