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writes:The other week after being told by my girlfiend by text that it was over I drove for 2 hours to see her to try and speak to her to sort things out (mistake no.1)As she was ignoring all my messages and calls before I just turned up I messaged her twice to ask her that if she really didn't want me to come over I would respect her wishes and leaver her alone. If I didn't hear from her I would be there when said (mistake no2)I sent her another message before I left asking her that she wouldn't allow me to drive all that way and not be there... she wouldn't do that would she? (mistake no.3)On the way over I felt so sick and woried I prayed to my Dad (who died a few years ago) to give me some help hereAfter driving for 2 hours I arrived at her house......... she had gone out (mistake no.4)That was two weeks ago and although I felt disgusted by her actions I missed her so much and I grieved.I live on the ground floor of an apartment block and leave my window open very slightly as it is warm. 2 nights ago I was having another patchy nights sleep when I was woken by torchlight in my room and the sound of my window being opened. I shouted my head off and lept out of bed just as a man was breaking into my apartment. As I shouted so loud that I scared the living daylights out of the man who fell back out of the window and ran away with me screaming after him..... OK, scary night.. but this is my point. If I had been sleeping soundly as I usually do, this man would have got right into my room and god knows what could have happened then. It was only because I was sleeping so lightly from the recent events that I woke up at exactly the right time in order to scare him away. When I asked my dad for help, do you think he knew what was going to happen and that's why he didn't help me with the breakdown of my relationship but instead allowed me to be in the position to react to the intruder so I could protect myself. Also since my relationship finished I have made 2 new friends from nowhere. I am beginning to think that fate really does exist and departed loved ones really could be there watching over us and protecting us... The only thing being the weird way they seem to work.I am still hurting like crazy about my ex girlfriend even though i know that a)it would never have worked b) she proved her true colours by the way she ended things and the way she chose to behave afterwards. But you kmow what... recent events have made me realise I will be ok, it happened for a reason and in the end all this suffering will be for the best.How much have I learned about myself.. How much stonger do I believe I will be... How much do I know I will be ok, things will be ok.... ???Well I am still here to find out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2008): Hi
Very good that you scared the intruder, hope you have secured all your windows and doors now? Sorry that you still hurt about your split up with your girlfriend.But i am a great believer in new chapters starting when they are meant too. F.A.T.E. From Another Time Extracted.
Something quite special has happened to you in your own way, that only you probably understand. You sound very upbeat and strong. Keep this attitude through your life and you will surmount many things with a smile. Maybe one day your vision will expand even more and you may see loved ones who have passed over. Have you ever developed your physic abilities in a spiritualist circle?
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (8 October 2008):
So... you are ok then?
If so my advice is to continue being ok.
Good Luck!! xx
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