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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2015): as a very straight guy who has done this with a chick my tip is if you get the chance with a chick who wants to do this to you and your up for it go for it. it is amazing.
a few tips
use small toys or fingers first, before going for a strapon, ease in to it
use more lube than you think you need, this go's for any anal.
get a vibrating one, so much better.
get a long one, length dose not hurt but it is easer for her to use, but don't go too wide, unless your in to that kind of thing.
oh, and if you get multiple orgasms from it, enjoy it, I did
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reader, devils reject  +, writes (31 July 2010):
i dont know what it feels like but i dont think it makes you gay i would probably let my wife do it to me.but id have to really think about it and talk to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2009): let her do you it feels so good you need a lot of lube once you do it you will want to more in more
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2009): If you want to do it, then just do it, worst case is you dont like, then dont do it any more. My girl nagged for five years about doing it and I finally let her and it really not that bad, I'd let her do it again if she wanted to! All that and I'm not gay or bi aat all. And the correct term for this is "pegging"
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reader, garcypher  +, writes (19 May 2009):
After a night with your girlfriend and her fetish stay off the vindaloo. It's a little more than role reversal. It's practically an evolution thing going on here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2009): go for it you might like it I did
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2009): Being sexually attracted to men would make you gay, not doing a particular something.
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reader, Olichenko +, writes (13 May 2009):
Don't worry, your not gay.
Your simply exploring new avenues in your relationship.
And like all anal experiences, if you don't like, don't try it again.
It's a simple role reversal.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I have the next 2 lines.
Anal play doesn't make you gay unless it's guy on guy,
But if you're a straight girl and have had sex with girls,
That definitely make you Bi...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): You're questioning it because deep down, you know it's wrong. At the same time, you don't want to displease your woman but maybe she's got a sadistical streak. Either way, it's unnatural. Just my opinion.
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reader, RaeMay +, writes (13 May 2009):
 i say that it wouldnt make you gay. imma girl and ive done things with other girls but im not a lesbian or bi. I say that if your willing to then go for it. But if you dont feel comfortable then dont and just tell her that you really dont feel comfortable doing that. and if she really loves then she will understand
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reader, Mr.Insignificant +, writes (13 May 2009):
 It doesn't make you gay and I say go for it!
I think you should do more research about prostate stimulation and the sexual upside that can be had by this xp.
Incidentally, and I don't know why I know this, but the official term for this situation is "pegging".
Google it for more details.
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): Obviously the idea turns her on, or she wouldn't have asked you. Whether you're 'up for it' or not is your call, but I think it's pretty intriguing that you didn't instantly dismiss the idea.
Be honest with yourself. Do you like the idea? Does it completely gross you out, or do you get tingles thinking about it? It wouldn't 'make you gay', as obviously it would be an experience you're undertaking with a female. There's a chance it might give you a taste for the sensation of being anally penetrated, which could in turn ultimately lead to you going for men, but it's all up to you.
I'd say go for it, but I'm a bit of a gay slut so completely biased. If you don't feel able to, just say no. Whichever decision you make, best of luck with it.
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reader, birdynumnums +, writes (13 May 2009):
Anal play doesn't make you gay unless it's guy on guy.
Sounds like the start of a dirty limerick...
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reader, garcypher +, writes (13 May 2009):
Get plenty of lubricant ready. It might not make you gay but at least you will know what those poor suckers go through in the pain department. Maybe your girlfriend is a sadist.
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (13 May 2009):
 I don't think it would make you gay as you still like girls not boys, you'd just be a straight guy who lets his girlfriend "bum" him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009): your choice. Not hers - any more than the reverse would be her choice. If not interested just say, sorry no - not into that.
And no it doesn't make you gay. It is not sex with someone of the same gender.
Sigh.
Star.x.
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reader, chickchick +, writes (13 May 2009):
 i dont know why your girlfriend wants to use a strap-on on you really. maybe you could try a new position or a different toy if your not too happy with the strap on.
i dont think it makes you gay.
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