A
male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: This might sound really stupid but it's a serious problem for me. My girfriend has a small gap in her front teeth, and when she gives me head, my frenulum gets trapped there and it tugs, and it hurts! I don't want her to think she's bad at oral sex coz she isn't at all, but that little gap is seriously chaffing me. Anyone else had this? What can I do?
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Ask her to try it lying on her side instead!!
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): Dude, all you have to do is tell her this. What is the big dilemma? Tell her it hurts & ask her to wrap her lips around her teeth. Does she not know that?
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male
reader, duce00 +, writes (7 September 2007):
Communication dude!
Just tell her the same thing you told us. Maybe lay off the gap in her teeth as the high point in the conversation though. Focus on letting her know tht you like her blow jobs "except fo one little thing".
Blow jobs shouldnt include teeth anyways...ouch! Lots of guys (myself included) have gotten that kind of bitter sweet oral. You shouldnt feel ashamed to say what hurts. Nobody should tollerate pain (unless thats theyre thing ;o)
One other thing is that you should also open the door for anything she may want to discuss. She may have somthing thats been bothering her. Make her feel like you want to improve too. She may express how its uncomfortable for her when you do that Tarzan impression during sex or somthing. Ohhhh just kidding man! Trying to get you to lighten up, thats all. Try not to stress about this too much. :)
Take care,
Duce
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2007): seems your very ungreatful,best way to stop it happening is stop having head
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