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writes:My husband of 5 months was offered a chance to be a co owner of a company that is very successful but he is afraid of change. Not just that his family is a very meddling family, they have to be in the middle of everything which started after we got married. My 25 year old daughter and mom both say it would do us good to move to another state away from family and give us a fresh start. This is what my daughter and her husband did and they are 100% happier and they are no longer talking about splitting. Please give me your opinions. I have been told 2 things will happen if we take the leap and move, one it gives a fresh start to us away from families on both sides and two it will make the family situation chill because he will not be in the same state with them to meddle in his business or our business. Help I am ready to walk out on my marriage already because he keeps saying it is because I will not stand up to them and that I am the cause of this problem. Reply to this Question
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (7 September 2007):
 Hi,
You need to talk him into going. What an oportunity, is he mad not taking it?.
The family!! ah yes thats another matter. Why are they meddling in your business, and why are you letting them?. He is right, you should stand up to them. You dont have to be rude just firm. And it sounds like he will support you.
I really hope that he excepts the new job and that you both start a new life, it sounds like an amazing offer. I would grab it with both hands.
Dont let anyone EVER push you around, remember what you are worth, or he wouldnt be with you. XX
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